Unsure how to approach a conversation with your child about the tragic events of Saturday 13th April?
We have some guidance for you.
1. Start with reassurance
“Hey sweetie, there was something sad that happened recently, and I want to talk to you about it so you’re not scared. Do you know the big shopping centre in Bondi? Well, something happened there, but you’re safe, and I’m here with you.”
2. Use simple language
“A man, who was feeling very confused and not well in his mind, did something really bad. He hurt some people at the shopping centre. The police had to step in to keep everyone safe, and they stopped him, but it was a scary situation.”
3. Focus on safety
“I want you to know that these kinds of things are very rare, and there are lots of people who work hard to keep us safe, like the police and helpers. We’re always looking out for each other, and that’s really important.”
4. Acknowledge feelings
“It’s okay to feel upset or confused about what happened. If you have any questions or feelings you want to talk about, I’m here for you. Sometimes, talking about how we feel can help us feel better.”
5. Highlight the helpers
“There were some brave people who tried to help stop the bad things from happening. They did their best to protect others, and that’s something really special. It shows that even in scary situations, there are good people who try to make things better.”
6. Limit exposure
“I want to make sure you’re not scared by things you see or hear about this on TV or online. If you ever see or hear something that makes you feel uncomfortable, please let me know, and we can talk about it together.”
7. Reiterate safety measures
“We always need to be cautious and aware of our surroundings, but remember, we can still go to places like the shopping centre and have fun. We just need to stay together and look out for each other.”
8. Offer comfort
“If you ever feel worried or scared, you can always come to me or another adult that you trust, for comfort and support. We’re a family, and we’re here for each other, no matter what.”
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