“The physical, emotional, and financial abuse of elders is more common than we would like to think. It can come from family members, carers and care organsiations and, of course, there are scammers trying to take financial advantage of the elderly”, says Kate Melhopt, Executive Officer of South Eastern Community Connect.
“Many of our seniors are isolated and marginalised, and we need our community to look out for them. If an elderly neighbour is being neglected, mistreated or showing signs of deteriorating well-being it is time to step up”, she says.
Warning signs to look out for include;
- Unexplained signs of injury
- Repeated failure to take medications
- Caregivers who won’t allow others to see the elderly person alone
- Unsanitary or unsafe living conditions
- Untreated physical conditions or weight loss
- Large withdrawals from accounts and money missing from the home
- Suspicious changes in wills, policies and titles
- Services that are not needed such as subscriptions, services or goods
- Services that are paid for but not received
There are, however, effective measures you can take to prevent abusive patterns getting a foothold.
For family and friends;
- If you are a carer, accept help where it is available, use in-home respite services and look after their own mental well-being in managing the stresses and demands of being a carer
- Listen to senior citizens and their concerns and intervene if you see the red flags
- Keep an eye on medications and finances
- Visit and call as often as you can
- Ask a friend, your local neighbourhood centre or a professional to bring your finances and legal matters in order
- Maintain your social network and join new social circles – many neighbourhood centres offer free activities for seniors
- If you are concerned about services you receive and how you are being treated tell someone you trust and ask them to report it.
“We can offer help with banking and bill paying, and can pick up any financial red flags. We have volunteers who visit our clients in their homes to build and maintain relationships with the elderly, and to pick up any concerning changes in mood and behaviour. Our aged care workers also act as another set of eyes and ears when it comes to warning signs in the daily life of the client” Ms Melhopt explains.
“The most powerful tool in preventing elder abuse is, however, supporting and maintaining a wide network of relationships with caring neighbours, friends, family, support workers, health professionals and other organisations that will be able to pick up the warning signs”, she says.
To discuss how our services can help you build that strong safety net and hands-on support, call South Eastern Community Connect on 8338 8506 or contact your local neighbourhood centre.
If you experience neglect or abuse, or know of an elderly person being abused or neglected – speak up. Call the NSW Elder Abuse Helpline on 1800 628 221.